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Updated: Feb 10, 2023

Let me tell you a little about me.



Hi let me tell you about myself. I am a person who just wants you to become a better version of themselves. I started my life journey in 1993 when I graduated high school and moved from my smaller hometown in Montana to a Pheonix Arizona to study Deisel Technology. While in Pheonix I had a real awakening. I realized not everyone was friendly, or nice and there were people here who wanted to pray on Nieve people like me. I graduated and returned to my hometown where I was unable to find a job in my career of study, so I took the first job I could get which was a weekend store stocker and delivery driver for a Beer distributor. I was able to get my Commercial Driver's License through this company and was promised a raise that never came. I became disgruntled and decided it was time for the Union to come in, so we began that fight. During this time, I found out my girlfriend at the time was pregnant, so we decided to get married.

The Union was voted in, and I decided it was time to try to get into the career of my studies as a diesel mechanic on over the road trucks.

I got my first job, and it was not at all what I expected working 7 days a week for little pay. I worked here for about a year and one day I came to work in the morning and was told I needed to pack up my toolbox and find somewhere else to work.

I started my second job as a diesel mechanic for a local Freightliner dealer. This job lasted about a year, and I was laid off and the company went out of business. I looked for another job, but they were scarce at the time. So, one day in 1998, I decided to apply to become a Detention Officer for out Sheriff's Office.

At this time my wife was having an affair with her coworker and our marriage was very shaky. i received a phone call from the Sheriff's Office and was told I had to take the Physical test. I showed up and passed the test. Then went and picked my son up from my aunt who was watching him at the time, and we went home. I got home and my dad called me to see how I did on the test, and we were talking, while we were on the phone, I heard my son crying. I ran upstairs to his room, and he was nowhere to be found, but I still heard him crying. I looked out his open window and saw my 2-year-old son standing up in the back yard with blood streaming down his face, and the window screen laying there next to him. I ran outside picked him up and we rushed 2 miles to the hospital. Ended up he had a cut on his head, a concussion and no other injuries thank God.

I was at the hospital until 2 Am and had to interview the next morning at 8. it was a short night, but I got up and completed the interview, I did not do very well but in August of 1998 I started my new career.

I worked in the jail from August of 1998 until March of 2003. My time in the jail was great. I learned so much and realized I was meant to for this type of work, and it seemed natural for me to deal with people who were having a rough time. in 1999 we had our second child a beautiful baby girl. Things seemed to get better for a little while but soon changed and we were living in the same house but separate lives. We started seeing a marriage counselor and I could tell I was changing.

When I was hired as a police officer for a very small Montana town about 45 minutes away from my hometown. My family and I moved there, and it was a great place to start, but we eventually wanted to return to our hometown. In March of 2005, I returned to my hometown as a Deputy Sheriff. In 2011 My wife and I finally Divorced, but i was awarded custody of both children.

we moved in with my parents and I realized I needed to work on myself before I could really be a father. I decided to see a psychiatrist to try and figure out what was going on with me. I was diagnosed with PTSD from a few incidents I was involved with in my early years on patrol. I was able to get help and learn how to become a better father for my children.

In 2016 I met the love of my life I just did not know it. She started in the jail, and I was able to see her from time to time when I was in there serving inmates or bring them up. we would talk and flirt with each other, until I got the courage up to start ask her to go out with me in June of 2018 best time I ever had with a female, we went Gopher Hunting. On the 4th of July we started seeing each other and within 6 months I knew I had found the person I was supposed to spend the rest of my life with. In 2018 with coaxing from the new lady in my life I opened a small Firearms Store and ran it part time.

During 2020 to 2021 my store was struggling, and I joined a Network Marketing Company to try and save my store. This Network Marketing company really kick started my personal Development, and I realized I could help people more. In 2022 I became a certified life coach and started a new Journey to help people reach the best version of themselves.


If you're looking for a way to become the best version of yourself, I have the life experience and training to help you whether it's with PTSD, marriage, or just someone to help push you, give me a call for your free session and let's see if we will be a good fit.

I will leave you with this to ponder.

"Despite all appearances the world outside is not creating the problem. Your thinking is creating the problem"

David Key

 
 
 

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